At
Home With Mamma
There are several factors as reasons of choosing this
article. Firstly, the title of the article impressed me. I felt as if this
article written for me even it is not actually. It was totally different when I
finished reading it. Anyways, its name made me feel close as I am not with my
family and mother. I imagined be with my family and mother. Secondly, the
picture in the article is really interesting. The men are drawn strange in
there. Actually, the picture is a kind of threatening. They look like as addicted
from something. Before reading the article I could not relate the title with
the picture so it is interesting, too. To summarize the article, it is about Italian
men who are strongly linked with their mammas and cannot leave them until their
33-34s. To illustrate, Vindi claims that he would not leave his mother’s home
until he found valid reason. Meanwhile, this event extends over Europe and it
reached 58% from 51% in seven years. There stated certain factors causing this
situation. Staying at home with mamma leads living more economic. At the same
time the mothers are also tied to their sons intensively. The mothers feel
happy when they know that they make their sons life easier. Of course there are
many disadvantages of it accordingly. For instance, as stated in the article the
wives of their sons feel as they are in the second place and unimportant.
Therefore, this could lead problems on their marriage. Considering all
mentioned points in the article I noticed that there is no female role at not
leaving mamma’s home. The boys only cannot leave their mamma home. Why is that?
Do not girls love their mother? Or do not mothers love their daughters as they
love their sons? Of course it is in Italy. However, I am sure that in this
earth there is no a mother who do not love her daughter and love her son and
feed them accordingly. Normally, it is assumed that the sons could survive
alone while the daughters do not. The daughters need help from someone else.
They are fragile. Overall, I strongly disagree separating the daughter from the
sons. It is like living in history as we all know that the boys considered more
important in that times. Another point which I stand as opposite is feeding
your children till you die. The mothers cannot tolerate when their kids are in
torture of food or money. However, these things teach them about the life and
its difficulties. This is not the case just for Italy but of course for some
other countries. In brief, staying at home with mamma has both certain
advantages and disadvantages. Yet, keep in mind you need to stay in your foot
as your mother or anyone who carried you on his shoulder will not come with you
all the time.
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